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Have a great Weekend!

by Jen

Do you Have Giveaways? Please Share them here! Every Saturday there is new post with a Mr. Linky for you to list your giveaways. So Please Check weekly To Add yours!
Have a great Weekend!

by Jen


Hello! I have decided to do Twitter Hop Thursday today hosted by Simply Stacie, The King’s Court IV, Little Yaya’s, Kelly’s Lucky You and Dear Crissy. I have recently started using twitter more and I would love to have some new followers and also find some great people to follow! Feel free to join along!
Would you like more Twitter followers and be introduced to more neat blogs and businesses out there? Come and join us!!
1. Add your Twitter to the MckLinky (you only have to add it to one and it will appear on all).
2. Click on the Twitter for the four hostesses and follow each of them on Twitter. We will follow you back.
3. Follow as many people on Twitter as you like, but make sure to leave comments with links so they’ll know where to follow you!
Spread the word and add this MckLinky to your blog! Write your own post or copy and paste this one. Below the MckLinky box, you’ll see “Want to be a part of this Blog Hop? Click here for instructions and code”. Have fun Twitter-Hopping along!
We have selected a Twitterer of the Week from last week’s entries and the lucky winner is Baby Gator’s Den! They will be in the #6 spot! We will choose next week’s winner from everyone who participated today.
Please only add your Twitter url. All other entries will be deleted. Thank you






by Jen


Many People are finding themselves in Debt lately. With the economy like it is more and more people are struggling. A good way to prevent yourself from digging yourself further debt is to form a personal budget that can work for you and your family. Many people spend their hard earned money frivolously without having much regards to how much money they will have left before their next paycheck comes. Which often leads, them to find they have little or no money left and ending up having to borrow from friends, family or even a lender just to pay essential bills or provide for their family. The problem with this type of spending is that you tend to incur debts that will begin to cause added problems with your finances that you become unable to pay off your debts when needed.
This is not the correct way of handling your finances. It just adds more debt that you don’t need. By creating a personal budget you will begin to plan all of your financial aspects and prioritizing items. Eventually you will achieve a successful financial situation you will enjoy. The first thing you need to do is take a careful assessment of your needs on three different bases:
• Short Term
• Medium Term
• Long Term
You will need to ask yourself a few questions, what are you objectives? What is it you would like to achieve over time? What are your targets for your budget? How soon do you want to pay these debts down? Make a list of all of these things, and then you should begin to layout your financial means.
Itemize your income and your expenses monthly, then itemize the expensive starting with the most important ones, important expenses, and then least important. Find and implement a prioritizing formula that will work well for you and your situation. Assess your consumption costs monthly write your figures down. After you have done this, write down your sources of income and what each one brings in on a monthly basis. Place your expenses on the right and your income on the left hand side. Add each column up then subtract to find the difference. You will want to figure out rather you have a deficit or surplus.
You will Figure out what you can actually afford and amend the budget, once you have established a working budget that will help you and your family, print it out and stick to it. Sticking to the budget is perhaps the most important aspect of creating a personal budget. It also can be one of the hardest things that you have to do. This takes discipline. If you fail to adhere to the budget, you will not have helped your financial situation by any means; it is likely you will only further your debt and make it harder in the long run. Sometimes we have to get real with ourselves and ask do we really need this new item so bad. That money could be going on paying your debts down! I admit I love shopping, I love to have the latest technology but I refuse to go in debt for it. My Bills always come first. Then I put money aside in our emergency fund. If you don’t have an emergency fund I urge you to start one! I know some will say they don’t have the extra money but if you just take 5-10 a week from your check and put it back you will never know it’s gone. If you’re really hurting for money Start cutting stuff! You don’t have to have cable, or that extra data plan on your phone! Sometime you have to go down to the basics. This will not last forever but in till you are comfortable and not worrying about what if’s then the best thing to do is save as much as you can! Things come up and I hear people talking about they don’t know what they are going to do. I hurt for them because I know things are tough right now but I also question them in my head. That’s why I am so hell bent on emergency funds! Example: You have to have a car right? You just noticed that you need new tires but you don’t have the money to replace them..or you need new breaks but you didn’t budget that in for this pay check. That’s when not only issues happen it also causes unneeded stress.
Tax time is coming and many people feel if they are getting a refund it’s time to splurge! Umm noooo this is not the time! However, this is the perfect time to pay any debts that you owe off and then put enough back to cover things that may happened throughout the year. I will admit I would love to take my refund and shop till I drop but I know that’s not a smart thing to do. I have to look ahead. We don’t know what this year is going to bring. I know that I’d rather do without then struggle any day! I don’t need any added stress! Many people are going to say but Jen you buy this and spend on this and that your right I do, however I make sure that any extra money I do spend its already been budgeted in. I am not saying you can’t buy stuff! I am saying make sure you have it in the budget! I would not take any money and buy something if I knew It was going to cut into our monthly bills or emergency funds. This year I have had to budget more than before since income has been cut. I know firsthand how hard it is. I also know it can be done with adjustments. Don’t look @ the moment look at the big picture! Things will get better but till then you are going to have to make changes.
Now Speak OUT! I want to hear how you stick to budget? Do you have an emergency fund? If not how do you handle life’s unexpected?






by Jen
I have decided that I need my own section on my blog for my daily rants, since I have so many! Today starts the first day…Make sure you check back daily to read my rants where I refuse to hold anything back!


I am sure we all can remember our first school dances. Oh what memories! My first was in the 6th grade. I don’t think I ever missed a middle school dance. Those were the days. With my son in middle school, I was looking forward to his first dance and hearing all about it! Well, I am sad to say I don’t think it’s going to happen! The first dance was a back to school dance and he didn’t want to go. I was ok with that since I knew he was new to middle school and it was a big change. Today I learn about a v-day dance posted on the school’s FB page! I saw all kids talking about going. I was thinking mmm that’s odd Dre hasn’t said anything about a dance. When he got home I ask was he going LOL! He was like NO, I ask why not. Mom none of my friends are going and it’s lame. Dre how do you know its lame you have never been? Because I just do mom. Then he asks HOW DID YOU KNOW ABOUT IT ANYWAYS!? Dre I told you I know everything! He just smiled and gave me that look like yea.
I am actually in shock he don’t want to go. He is very social and has many friends. He plays sports and in a lot of other clubs and such. I can’t blame it on him just being shy. I have always thought it would be Jasmine who refuses to do any school activities like this. Of course I am not going to push them into going but as a mom I admit I am a little sad! LOL how crazy does this sound right? It’s just a dance! Hopefully next year Jasmine will shock me and actually go then just maybe he will go so I will have 2 kids going to the same dance for the first time together! If not I guess I can wait till my princess Jada gets old enough. We all know she is going to be the life of the party and never miss any chance of being all dressed up! LOL
Talk to me! Did you go to your school dance? If not WHY and do you regret it now that you are adult? If you did share your stories!!






by Jen


The first of the year we often find ourselves thinking about New Year’s resolutions. With the top one for so many of us, is the annual tradition which involves taking steps towards a healthier lifestyle. I have noticed many and friends talking about this lately. Many of us want to lose all those extra pounds while others just want to get healthier. I have made a lot of changes in my diet in the past few months. I have started watching more closely what I am actually putting in my body and also adding more of the things that I need. For me I needed more Protein and also fiber.
Experts tell us we need fiber, which comes from whole grains, vegetables and fruits, to help support your digestive system and maintain immunity. But as busy mom on the go, getting enough daily fiber can prove challenging. In fact, according to the American Dietetic Association, most women only get about half the recommended daily allowance of fiber. As I was looking for more ways to add extra fiber I happen to get an email from Mom Central about a new blog tour for FiberChoice Chewable Fiber Supplements. I admit I had tried these before but I wasn’t making it a daily thing till now! FiberChoice Chewable Fiber Supplement helps remove the guesswork with a simple, convenient, tablet that provides the natural benefits of fiber, while also helping to support the health of your immune system and digestive tract, and overall health. FiberChoice contains prebiotics – a unique fiber that nourishes the friendly, “good” bacteria that aids our digestive system. While the short-term benefits of fiber may go unnoticed, taking FiberChoice every day as part of an ongoing effort helps you to live a more healthy life.


This Time around I decided to try the FiberChoice® Weight Management since I am trying to lose weight! The Weight Management formula is bursting with strawberry flavor. Plus, it helps you curb between-meal cravings and promote weight control. How does it work I am sure your asking right? Since Fiber slows the rate at which your body breaks down food, you feel full longer and chromium picolinate is supposed to help promote fat metabolism. Of course this is when used as part of a healthy diet and exercise program. (SO DON’T think you can just take this and lose weight). I now feel happy that I am able to get the extra fiber I need without worrying about trying to keep up with fiber intake in everything I eat!
So do you watch your fiber or getting enough? According to American Dietetic Association, your body needs 25 to 30 grams of dietary fiber every day. When I saw that I KNEW I WAS NOT GETTING THAT. Most Americans manage to get only get half that – 12 to 15 grams – from their daily diets ALONE. Even people actively working to get more fiber into their diets can fall short of the daily recommended amount! So this year make sure you put getting extra Fiber in for your lifestyle change! You can read more about the benefits and learn more about FiberChoice on their main site. While you’re there take the quiz to see which FiberChoice is right for you. http://www.fiberchoice.com/Products_chooser.aspx
*I wrote this review while participating in a blog tour by Mom Central Consulting on behalf of FiberChoice and received a coupon to facilitate my review and a gift code to thank me for taking the time to participate





