Princess Jada Looks Cute and sweet RIGHT???

WRONG……….

This is cute and sweet…

If you follow me on facebook or even twitter, I know you have seen me complain about how this child name Princess Jada Has took over my little girl.   At First I thought it was so cute and even loved that I had a real princess in the house, but AFTER a while it got to be a little too much!    Princess Jada is becoming a real life “mean girl” that thinks EVERYTHING IS ALL ABOUT HER!!  Sorry princess but around here I am the QUEEN and I run this!

Monday was my last straw and it’s time to put the princess out and move Jada back in!  Monday was her 5^th birthday and of course it was all about her!  Jada is very demanding she felt that she needed to wear her princess dress to school Monday Because it was her birthday and of course she even has the teacher and classmates calling her princess Jada which IS NOT HELPING!  Of course I refused.

I was not about to send that child to school looking like she is about to go trick or treaten on Halloween so we made a deal…. We would let her go out Sunday and pick a brand new outfit just to wear to school even THOUGH she has outfits with that she has never WORE. I mean it sounds fair enough right?  Well the other kids didn’t want to go so I sent jada with DH!  OMG BIG MISTAKE!  I was trained to learn the word NO real early in life and never have had an issue using it even with princess and her little fake tears.  DH must have not been trained well because the outfit became a WHOLE COMPLETE OUTFIT! With matching shoes, book bag, purse, socks, and other little goodies…TAKE A LOOK!

This little Mirror you see was $25.00 It’s A PRINCESS ONE ! Least I guess I am glad they didn’t pay 45.00 which is the price online…. BUT MMM DID THEY??? JUST SAY I BETTER NOT FOUND THEY DID!

I haven’t done the math here  so I am not sure how much this all  adds up. DH knows he has been played and will not tell me how much he REALLY SPENT, But As you can see that was a very EXPENSIVE TRIP and WOULD HAVE NEVER HAPPENED ON MY WATCH ESPECIALLY THE DAY BEFORE HER BIRTHDAY!!

SOOOO……

She got the stuff and he get’s played.  I chalk it up and think ok well surely she is not going to want or need anything more!  WRONG Monday after princess came home from school giving demands and wanting her gifts, ready to go eat, and cake! EXCUSE ME DIDN’T I SAY I RUN THIS …Yea thought so.. Anyways Jasmine made jada a pretty birthday card and don’t you know that LITTLE BRAT…THAT SPOILED CHILD …THAT UNGRATEFUL 5 year old told her that she don’t want that …SHE WANTS A TOY… Jasmine is 9 and now in tears and runs to her room…OK NOW IT’S ONNN…I HAVE LOST MY MIND I am screaming at the top of my lungs now because this princess keeps telling ME that she didn’t want no stupid card and asking me when her grandparents are bringing her gifts At THE SAME TIME I AM TELLING HER THAT WAS MEAN AND UNCALLED FOR!   ALL I AM THINKING Now IS HURTING HER, I MEAN REALLY!! So I send Her to her Room…I couldn’t even look @ her..WHO’s CHILD wait.. MEAN SPOILED BRAT IS THIS?!! BRING MY BABY BACK!

I am in shock!  SO I start blaming DH.  DAMMIT IT’S ALL HIS FAULT SHE ACTS LIKE THIS! Then we start fussing… SO WHAT DO I DO I CALL THE BIRTHDAY DINNER OFF! NO DAMMIT WE ARE NOT GOING OUT TO EAT; NO YOU’RE NOT GETTING A CAKE NO NO NO AND NO… After everyone calms down we do allow her to have her cake but that was IT!  I am still not sure that I want to even have her birthday party this weekend.. I really want to show her the world is not all about Jada!

Today has been way better It was a snow day so the kids were home. I have not had the first issue! I think me losing it and acting like a crazy woman might have made the her think woah MOMMY IS CRAZY!    I have never ever went off on Jada like this EVER.. BUT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH…  Either WAY I Know this is going to be very hard to break but I am not giving up on this.. I RUN THIS HOUSE! SO KEEP on the lookout for the daily updates.. THIS IS GOING TO BE FUN!!

I will admit I am not happy with my blog or where it’s going.  There have been times when I just wanted to start all over  with a new name, new colors, new layout,  even new readers!( WELL I STILL WANT MY FRINDS LOL) ETC ETC.  Then Reality hits… I have already done it with It’s Just simply unique when I started Mommy’s Hangout.  I still  leave it’s simply unique  up for paid ad’s and paid post which makes decent amount a money even though I never hardly update it but  I decided that instead of making a whole big move again that I am just going to make BIG CHANGES!

I have decided that I am going to BE ME From now on. I always tell everyone else to be themselves on their blog but I am not taking my own advice!  I blame that on being tied down with reviews or giveaways and if you noticed I have backed away big time! I have a few more reviews and after that you might see 4 at the MAX on my blog per month. I feel that one a week is fair but it will only be something that I am interested in and worth it.  Sorry If it’s not worth my  time I am better off going out and buying it, trying it, and if I don’t like it take it back and get a refund!

Everyone always thinks that bloggers that review are so lucky cause they get free stuff WAIT HOLD UP IT’s NOT FREE CAUSE WE REVIEW IT, WE TAKE PICTURES, WE BLOG IT AND PROMOTE IT!  I will be honest here ,only  a handful of things that I  have reviewed   would  I say it was well worth it for ME and My FAMILY!   Lately my email is packed with lame pr pitches and someone always wanting something for free.  I don’t even read them anymore and PR IF YOU ARE READING THIS PLEASE DON’T SEND ME FOLLOW UP’s! IF I Didn’t Respond to you that means I Don’t WANT TO WORK WITH YOU! AND PLEASE DON’T send me those “I thought you would like to share this with your readers” and it’s a press release.  GO DO YOUR JOB AND MARKET IT YOURSELF that is what you get paid for unless you going to pay me post it then maybe we can talk if not keep it moving cause I am sure you’re going to find a few bloggers that will post that BS up for you free of charge but It won’t be ME!

I AM REALLY GANGSTA JUST ASK ABOUT ME LOL! I just have put this little front on and everyone seems to have me mixed up LOL.  ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I am sure I am going to lose followers but I DON’T REALLY GIVE A DAMN ANYMORE! I am sick of holding my hot topics because I don’t want someone upset! PLEASE THAT’s SO LAME! IF SOMETHING ONLINE GETS YOU THAT UPSET THEN SWEETIE IT’s TIME TO BACK AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER!

SO HERE ARE THE CHANGES! YOU ARE EITHER WITH IT OR YOUR NOT BUT YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!

1. I sometimes cuss, I do try to watch what I say and keep it classy but sometimes you gotta say what you need to say!

2. I will still remain Professional and treat my reviews just the same.. No change there..I will even go as far as saying even better since I will only be taking ones I WANT and WORTH IT!

3. I am not online trying to be everybody’s friend! We can be be cool but that’s about it so don’t bring that gossip to me trying to see what I am going to say so you can go run back and put me in some drama!

4. My Grammar sucks and I sometimes find myself talking /writing in slang..SORRY SUE ME! HEY Don’t BLAME ME ! BLAME  HOTT ATL!

5. I am not with that high school mean girl drama..Just because you have personal issues with someone don’t mean I do!

6. I hate the crying BOOO  BOOO  and more BOOO!  My Kids do it enough! SO WHAT YOU DIDN’T GET INVITED OR GOT THAT PITCH WHO CARES IF YOU WANT IT THAT BAD GO BUY THE DAMN PRODUCT!  If you do the math you’re better off going that route anyways!

7. Don’t hate! ( OMG I REALLY HATE SAYING THAT CAUSE IT’s OVER USED AND SOME FOLKS Don’t EVEN KNOW THE REAL MEANING ANYMORE!) But seriously be happy for that person and just work harder to get where they are!

8. I AM SILLY! I LIKE TO LAUGH, I know how to have fun, but I also know how to be serious!

9. My Kids get on my last nerves! So it’s not going to be all awww moments..TRUST ME! THIS FAMILY IS FAR FROM THE COSBY SHOW! MORE LIKE ROSEANN LOL!

10. Family and friends SORRY YOUR NOT OFF LIMITS ANYMORE! IF I FEEL THE NEED TO BLOG ABOUT U I WILL! I WILL HOWEVER  CHANGE NAMES TO PROTECT YOU!

11. I don’t like drama but for these bloggers and PR REPS that feel their shit don’t stink..DON’T EVEN GO THERE WITH ME! I WILL BLAST YOUR ASS IN A HEARTBEAT!

12. I am going to sale ad space and do paid post! SORRY I GOTTA GET PAID! But I will have it in a different location so you will know what it is so you CAN SKIP IT!

13.I WILL SNAP IN 30 SECS!  MADEA IS MY ROLE MODEL SOOO YEA LMAO …But Really I don’t take this online life serious like some does. I made that mistake 5 years ago! I have learned folks love to talk shit online and act like they are the shit..IT’s ALL TALK! LET THEM DO IT! I refuse to get upset over ANYTHING SOMEONE SAYS ABOUT ME, MY FRIENDS, MY FAMILY ONLINE! YALL Don’t KNOW US! ALL WE KNOW IS WHAT WE TELL…Don’t FORGET Never judge a book by its cover!

AND FOR EVERYONE WHO KNOWS My real side.. SIMPLY UNIQUE HAS LEFT THE BULIDING GA IS BACK!!!  IT”S ONNN NOW!! LOL

NOW LET ME DO THE DAMN THING….THIS IS MY PARTY! I RUN THIS SHIT RIGHT HERE! U HEARD!? NOW STAY TUNE AND LET ME SHOW U HOW I  REALLY DO IT!

As you can tell I have been MIA for a few days’ umm ok OK maybe 2 weeks!  Thank you for the emails, im’s and text checking on me. I am really sorry that I didn’t respond to  all of them, however It really mean’s a lot, but if  something  is ever wrong My partner Jammie  @ The Neat things In Life always knows how to get in contact me and also get the word out for me.   A lot has been going on and blogging was really not something that was on my mind to be honest.

First I am on personal leave from my work @ home job. The past few months the job has really got to me.  I don’t have the same drive that I used to have when I started 2 years ago.  The people are getting more annoying each and every day and the real customers are BROKE Like most Americans and don’t want to spend extra money on up -sales and those stupid autoships!  I hear them loud and clear But of course my job don’t hear it.  I was really going to just quit and cut my ties, but let’s be honest I need a job and plus I am working from home.  After thinking about it I decided to take a 30 day leave and thought I would just keep working till I found a new job!

GUESS WHAT! That New job came that very next day!  I am a firm believer that GOD doesn’t close one door without opening another one! I just didn’t think he would be so fast!  I mean Look how many people are without jobs!  This new job is perfect. I am still working from HOME actually making $2 more an hour, better hours, they provide the computer AND NO SALES, NO UPSELLS And none of that other stuff! Just plan customer service on the phone and online!  I will be working for a major retail bank. I am so excited! The training is for 6 weeks.  I am very impressed with this company and have thought about trying to get on with them before but everyone said they were hard to get on with so I never tried till now!

I thought what the hell and did the application and test and got the email wanting to do an interview!  The interview went Perfect she ask me a few questions and stopped me in the middle and said “ I don’t need to ask anything more I have heard enough” I was thinking oh no what do I say! Then she asks me if I would like to take the job!!  I was very honest in my interview maybe to honest but I really wanted them to know what I expect also.

Working from home is great don’t get me wrong, but we put up with a lot of bullshit and most places don’t see that.  Working from home is not for everyone because you do have to take it serious. Over the years I have seen many new agents come and go because of this. I just feel that the agents that have the track record to handle it should have the support and respect just like someone working in the office would.  I hate to hear them say “omg you work from home” when I tell my team lead that I can’t come to her stupid meeting on Saturday Mornings @ 3 Am (when she tells us FRIDAY Morning in EMAIL @ 6AM EST) WHEN I AM OFF BTW the whole weekend and ALREADY HAVE PLANS!  I don’t mind team meetings but let’s have some real notice PLEASE and Not ON THE WEEKEND! Why not do a team meeting when we ARE SLOW AND BEGGING FOR CALLS BUT NOOO THEY WANT TO SEND YOU HOME THEN!

BUT NOW I AM BACK and Better then ever!! I really need change!  SO PLEASE CHECK BACK FOR MY BIG BLOG UPDATE SOON! This Mommy is not only changing her work life and home life but the ONLINE LIFE 2!!