OK Ladies! Have you noticed how hard Us Moms are on our self?
As I talk to other moms and listen to some of the stories I have found that we have put way to much on our self. We have got to stop feeling that we are supermom or better yet superwoman and can handle Everything and doing it perfect cause it’s just not going to happen.
Moms It’s time to step back and understand that we will never be the perfect mom or wife. We got to understand that we are going to make mistakes, things are not always going to go as planned, The house is not always going to look like what you see on TV or in the magazines, we might even make our kids or husbands upset at times but it’s ALL OK!
We often see mom’s that we feel has everything under control and wish that we could just be like her. She is the model mom as you think but deep down guess what she is dealing with the same issues as we are! She might hide it well in front of you and others but behind closed doors guess what she is just as stressed as we are!
So instead of being hard on your self its time to give your self a break! Give your self a pat on the back and remember NOBODY is perfect even if they come off like the are! IT’S FAKE and remember you only see what’s in front of you!
Jammie says
Very well said. I have to stop and remember that sometimes. But when you have anxiety issues it just always seems like no matter what you do you are failing either your child or your husband. I have to remember I need me time to unwind and take everything in. Again very well said.
Patricia Godfrey says
I used to stress myself out behind not being that supermom sometimes portrayed in the media and online. I couldn’t figure out why I couldn’t get things done in a timely manner, keep my kids on a schedule and the house organized. But now I just figure that as long as everyone’s happy and things are easily findable (whether on the floor, stuffed in a closet, or behind the computer), I’m just fine being the best mom that I can be!
.-= Patricia Godfrey´s last blog ..Am I Worthy? =-.