Over the past few weeks i have been watching all this online drama between bloggers, companies, women, girls, even Family including MY OWN!! etc etc, and feel that I need to break away. NO I don’t mean my blog THIS IS MY BLOG I be damn if someone stops me from doing what I love lol.. But I am breaking away from groups,nings, message boards, facebook, twitter and side chats ETC… you get the drift..
I really had to do some soul searching and I feel that this is the best for me. I don’t ever want to labeled as something or somebody I’m not. I Don’t want to feel that I have to pick sides or I will be bashed next. I am my own person! I do what I want and nobody can influence me to do or think other wise and if you don’t believe it just ask the people that know me the best LOL.
Over the past few weeks I have seen how much bashing goes on in the Online world and to me it’s childish and not called for. I don’t think anyone online is better then the next I am sorry. We really don’t know each other and all we know is what each other says…we are all just screen names so why take anything personal.. I Refuse to let someone’s issues become my own. I have met some great people online but I refuse to get caught in their drama, I refuse to even speak on it or express my opinions because It has nothing to do with ME AND DON’T EFFECT ME PERSONALLY IN ANY WAY!
I have strong opinions on a lot of stuff I see and I could point each and every one of them out, but What’s the point? Does It effect My Life? NO!! Here lately People have came to me and said stuff about others and I would listen and maybe give my opinion or advice about the situation but not anymore.
However I am going to put this out there One more last time…
1. If you get friend Request from someone you don’t want on your list IGNORE THEM BETTER YET BLOCK THEM! Who Cares what they think!
2. If you are a member of a ning, msg board, group and you are not happy with it leave don’t stay somewhere that you are not happy with or keep your membership open just to lurk and see whats being said or the lastest gossip what’s the point?
3. Don’t tweet or update your Myspace and Facebook stautes with something personal then get mad saying everyone is up in your business!! HELLO YOU PUT IT OUT THERE FOR THE WORLD TO SEE THAT’S YOUR FAULT!
4. DON’T I repeat DON’T Call someone a hater JUST BECAUSE THEY DON’T LIKE YOU OR AGREE WITH WHAT YOU SAY!! Hater is such an Overused word that people like to use just because someone else expresses a dislike for a certain individual. To Me the term Hater Actually means A person who feels anger and/or jealousy for someone who has succeeded in something they have worked hard for. Sooo With that you actually need to have or succeed in something someone wants..Sorry but I don’t think hater is the right word to use in your situation…
5. YOU REALLY HATE DRAMA? You Make a statues update saying this then 3 mins later your statues is what DRAMA!! LOL then when someone calls you out the statues updates Is Deleted! Baby Please stop it! I know if I see it your 1000 friends see it also..Your making yourself look really silly.
6. STOP THE DAMN QUOTES ON FACEBOOK Or better yet please give credit to the person who actually wrote them! I am over here LMAO cause people actually think you wrote them and you never correct them! I don’t know which is funnier you are them.
7. Don’t tell someone something if you have a fear of it getting out. If it does get out you better own up to that shit and not sucker out and say you didn’t say it. If you was bad enough to say it the first time be bad enough to admit it to the person you said it about!!
Everyone has opinions and i respect that but don’t just follow the crowd because everyone else is doing it. Be your own person and make your decisions don’t let anybody sway your thoughts or feelings any other way then your own.
I am the type of person that will say what I need to say directly to that person I have issues with I refuse to go behind someone’s back and say how i feel. Not only is it going to get twisted by doing so you are also creating unnecessary drama yourself. We as women are all guilty of saying we hate drama but we are always in it some way or another. Sometimes we need to step back and ask our self is it really worth it and how does this effect me? I think a lot of us need to start minding our own business and doing “US” instead of worrying about the next person..
So thats my Vent for the day, week, month, and year lol… and while you won’t be seeing much of me any where else but my own little space *my Blog* I am going to put all that extra time and energy in doing ME and reading more personal blogs dealing with what matters the most FAMILY AND YOU!!! Maybe now i can get some things done! So Please continue to stop by and know that this is Nothing personal against ANYONE! I love EVERYONE! I think Everyone brings their own unique styles to make the online world so fun and great!
Great post! I agree! I had enough online drama to last me a lifetime and I just decided that was ENOUGH and I left all the bull shit behind me and just do for ME now. I am a member of a couple of message boards but I just stay out of things that aren’t my business. I’ve been MIA for a while now too due to sickness, company and oral surgery it was a nice break, but damn now I’m paying for it lol I gotta get caught up on things tonight!
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I love your point of view. I agree too, the on-line world sometimes reminds me of High School. Everyone needs to get over themselves and just move on and forget it. You can not post anything on-line and expect it to be private. On-line is completely public even if you think it’s protected it’s not.
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Love your post! I couldn’t agree with you more. I think we all need to act like grown women and just all get along. And, if you can’t get along with someone, just shut your mouth. We all have enough problems to deal with.
Love your post. I can get caught up in the drama myself from time to time although I try to stay “drama free”. We all need to take a step back and look at the bigger picture.
Kasandria
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Dropping by from Blogs Her Color. Sorry you’re having so much drama with e-groups. The internet is the same as real life personified because people seem to get more intense when you can’t see them and many forget you can’t take back once it’s written in cyberspace.
Either way thanks for taking one last chance on Blog Her Color. I’ll be working my darnedest to keep it drama free 😀
Nice post, I have really seen over the past month how women are women no matter if its online, moms group or high school. Its just the way life is so it doesnt really bother me. People are always going to talk and I just do my best to stay out of it because I do have strong opinions. I just wish some women would be more direct if they have a problem. If you dont agree with a post then say so. If you can disucss it without arguing sometimes it can make for great conversation and I wouldnt be offended.