My Friend and one of my favorite bloggers Gina Over @ A Wrestling Addicted Mommy is doing some Secret Santa Fun this year on her blog for bloggers! Sign-ups will be open until 10/30/09 at 11:59pm EST. BUT Participants MUST have a blog in order to participate! No exceptions and open WORLD WIDE!

Gifts MUST BE sent by December 11th 2009, all packages must get a tracking number or delivery confirmation (if possible), this cuts down on lost packages or people saying they have not received them.

All Secret Santa Participants must be willing to take a picture and post pics and a post on your blog once they receive their gift thanking and linking to their Secret Santa exchange partner.

Spending Limit: Gifts must be AT LEAST $10 in value (not including shipping). You may spend more but please don’t be disappointed if the person who got you didn’t spend as much as you decided to on gifts.

So If you would like to join Head on over and sign up HERE!

Over the past few weeks i have been watching all this online drama between bloggers, companies, women, girls, even Family including MY OWN!! etc etc, and feel that I need to break away. NO I don’t mean my blog THIS IS MY BLOG I be damn if someone stops me from doing what I love lol.. But I am breaking away from groups,nings, message boards, facebook, twitter and side chats ETC… you get the drift..

I really had to do some soul searching and I feel that this is the best for me. I don’t ever want to labeled as something or somebody I’m not. I Don’t want to feel that I have to pick sides or I will be bashed next. I am my own person! I do what I want and nobody can influence me to do or think other wise and if you don’t believe it just ask the people that know me the best LOL.

Over the past few weeks I have seen how much bashing goes on in the Online world and to me it’s childish and not called for. I don’t think anyone online is better then the next I am sorry. We really don’t know each other and all we know is what each other says…we are all just screen names so why take anything personal.. I Refuse to let someone’s issues become my own. I have met some great people online but I refuse to get caught in their drama, I refuse to even speak on it or express my opinions because It has nothing to do with ME AND DON’T EFFECT ME PERSONALLY IN ANY WAY!

I have strong opinions on a lot of stuff I see and I could point each and every one of them out, but What’s the point? Does It effect My Life? NO!! Here lately People have came to me and said stuff about others and I would listen and maybe give my opinion or advice about the situation but not anymore.

However I am going to put this out there One more last time…

1. If you get friend Request from someone you don’t want on your list IGNORE THEM BETTER YET BLOCK THEM! Who Cares what they think!

7. Don’t tell someone something if you have a fear of it getting out. If it does get out you better own up to that shit and not sucker out and say you didn’t say it. If you was bad enough to say it the first time be bad enough to admit it to the person you said it about!!

Everyone has opinions and i respect that but don’t just follow the crowd because everyone else is doing it. Be your own person and make your decisions don’t let anybody sway your thoughts or feelings any other way then your own.

I am the type of person that will say what I need to say directly to that person I have issues with I refuse to go behind someone’s back and say how i feel. Not only is it going to get twisted by doing so you are also creating unnecessary drama yourself. We as women are all guilty of saying we hate drama but we are always in it some way or another. Sometimes we need to step back and ask our self is it really worth it and how does this effect me? I think a lot of us need to start minding our own business and doing “US” instead of worrying about the next person..

So thats my Vent for the day, week, month, and year lol… and while you won’t be seeing much of me any where else but my own little space *my Blog* I am going to put all that extra time and energy in doing ME and reading more personal blogs dealing with what matters the most FAMILY AND YOU!!! Maybe now i can get some things done! So Please continue to stop by and know that this is Nothing personal against ANYONE! I love EVERYONE! I think Everyone brings their own unique styles to make the online world so fun and great!